Anika Markle 
A statement from sexuality expert Deanne Carson has sparked widespread discussion—and ridicule—after she suggested that parents should ask their babies for permission before changing their nappies. Carson, a sexuality educator, speaker, and author, shared the controversial advice during a segment on ABC TV, aiming to promote the importance of teaching consent from an early age.
Teaching Consent From Birth
Carson clarified that while babies cannot verbally respond, the practice of asking and pausing is about instilling the concept of consent early on. She recommended maintaining eye contact and observing body language to convey that the infant’s responses matter.
On the program, Carson stated:
“We work with children from three years old, but we encourage parents to start creating a culture of consent at birth. For example, you could say, ‘I’m going to change your nappy now, is that OK?’ Of course, the baby won’t reply, but leaving a space and waiting for body language or eye contact teaches them that their response is important.”
Mixed Reactions
The statement left many viewers bewildered, with some taking to social media to express their disbelief. One Twitter user wrote, “I’m not hearing this right, surely,” while another commented, “I’m dumbfounded.”
Critics argue that the suggestion places unrealistic expectations on parents and overcomplicates a routine caregiving task. Many see it as unnecessary, given a baby’s limited understanding of language or consent concepts.
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